Let’s face it, folks. In a world that loves the spotlight, constant socializing, and endless networking, I’ve often wondered: Is it weird that I prefer to be an introvert? The truth is, I love working alone, doing my own thing, and keeping my head down until the job is done. And here’s the twist — I’m not ashamed of it! It’s not that I don’t enjoy a good conversation or a weekend BBQ (although, let’s be real, I’d rather skip the small talk), but I do it on my own terms. So, let me break it down for you — why being an introvert works for me, and why I work at night and rest during the day.
Oh, and why I don’t really fancy the idea of permanently working with others, either. Spoiler alert: It’s not you, it’s me.
I Work Best Alone – No Drama, No Fuss
First things first, I’m one of those rare individuals who thrives in solitude. While some folks might love the hustle and bustle of a crowded office or a full-fledged “squad outing,” I’m more likely to find peace and creativity in a quiet, dimly lit room. Working alone means I can focus 100% on the task at hand. No distractions. No interruptions. I don’t have to listen to endless gossip or pretend to laugh at someone’s bad joke. If I need a break, I take it. If I need a mental reset, I do it on my terms.
Honestly, it’s like this: I’m the microwave of productivity — fast, efficient, and I’m only ‘in’ when I’m in the zone. And when I get something done? I feel like a superhero who just saved the world (or at least completed the task without socializing for hours).
Why I Don’t Really Socialize — My Comfort Zone is My Happy Place
Okay, so here’s the thing. I’m not a social butterfly. I don’t enjoy mingling with people unless there’s something substantial to talk about. I mean, if your conversation involves asking how the weather is, or who’s got the best nasi lemak in town, I might just zone out faster than you can say, “Mana datang nasi lemak?” (Where did the nasi lemak come from?).
Now, don’t get me wrong — I’m not anti-social. I know how to be polite and have a nice conversation when it matters. But truth be told, small talk can be exhausting. It’s like running on a treadmill at full speed without getting anywhere. My brain craves depth, not just chatter. I like conversations that challenge me, that make me think. If I don’t feel a real connection, I’d rather save my energy for something that actually stimulates my mind.
Why I Work at Night – The Quiet of the Night is My Superpower
Now, here’s the part where most people might think I’m a little weird — I work at night. And I mean, deep into the night, like the type where the only sounds you hear are the occasional sigh of relief when a task is finally crossed off the to-do list.
Why do I prefer working at night? Simple: It’s peaceful. The world is quiet. The phone isn’t ringing every 5 minutes. No one’s sending a million WhatsApp messages about what they ate for lunch (trust me, I don’t need to know). I can focus, think deeply, and work at my own pace without constant interruptions. At night, the creativity flows freely, and I get in a zone where I can actually get things done without feeling like I need to socialize or explain myself.
Plus, let’s be honest, I get the best snacks at night. You can’t beat a cup of teh tarik and a bag of keropok while cranking out some quality work. Pro-tip: The best time for a good late-night snack is when the world’s asleep.
I Rest During the Day – The World Is Napping, So Am I
Now, I know what you’re thinking — “But don’t you need to be up during the day to get things done like everyone else?” Well, here’s the kicker: I’m not lazy. I still get my work done, but I prefer to rest when everyone else is busy running around. I don’t need to wake up at the crack of dawn to feel productive. I’ve learned that my best work comes when I’m well-rested, not when I’m forcing myself to function during a time I’m not naturally productive.
It’s a simple equation — less social noise, more personal time, and a night of deep focus = productivity and happiness. The world is in full swing during the day, while I’m resting, recharging, and preparing for the next burst of creativity when the sun sets. Some people love early mornings, while I’m over here with my bed and blanket, appreciating the quiet comfort of my home.
Why I Don’t Want to Work Permanently with Others – My Own Schedule, My Own Rules
Okay, now let’s talk about something that gets a lot of people scratching their heads: Why don’t I prefer permanent work arrangements with others?
The thing is, I enjoy the flexibility to choose when and how I work. Being forced into a 9-to-5 job, working with others who don’t understand my rhythm, and sticking to a rigid schedule — that’s not for me. My best ideas come when I’m alone, and my most productive hours happen when the rest of the world is asleep.
Working permanently with a team requires a lot of compromises. You have to sync with others, follow someone else’s rules, and adapt to the office vibe. But when I work alone, I get to set my own pace. I can choose to work when I’m at my best, not when a boss tells me I have to be there.
Now, I’m not saying that working with others is bad. Some people thrive in team environments, and that’s awesome! But for me, I’ve realized that I can be far more efficient and happy working independently, without the constant pressure of “being present” at all times.
Is It Weird to Be an Introvert?
The short answer: No, it’s not weird. In fact, it’s normal for me. Just because it’s not the societal standard doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Being an introvert doesn’t mean I don’t know how to socialize — it just means I choose when and how I do it. There’s a fine line between working in peace and fighting to stay awake during a never-ending meeting about something that could’ve been summarized in an email. And I’m good with my choices. In fact, I’m thriving in my introverted ways.
Plus, I’m not the only one who feels this way. More and more people are realizing that their best selves come out when they embrace their introversion. It’s all about working smarter, not harder, and finding a balance that suits your own energy levels.
Conclusion:
So, to answer the burning question — is it weird to be an introvert who works at night, keeps socializing to a minimum, and prefers working alone? Not at all. If anything, it’s a superpower. It’s about knowing yourself and embracing what works best for you. Some people love morning meetings and crowded rooms; others like me, love the quiet of the night and the satisfaction of getting things done on our own terms.
And hey, if you’re an introvert too, don’t worry — we’ve got our own rhythm. We’re just like the cool cats of the productivity world, silently owning the game without needing the spotlight. So the next time someone asks, “Why do you work alone at night?”, just reply with a smile and a sip of your teh tarik, “Because, my friend, that’s when I do my best work.”
